How To Make You Ex Return Your Calls

You very much want to speak to your Ex again. You have so much you would like to talk about. The problem is how to make your ex return your call. This is a very touchy situation because if this is handled incorrectly, it could ruin your whole relationship for good.
Almost as important as what you say to make your ex return your call is what you should not say. Believe it or not there are magic words that can be said to your ex when your leave him/her a message or text or Im.
It is always a good idea to have a complete strategy in place for your relationship before you even begin your call. That being said lets look at words and messages that almost never work.
What Not To Say!
This usually falls into 2 categories
1. The Plead-Where the message sounds like this, Brad, please, please call me, this is the 3rd time I have called. I have to talk to you. 2. The Emergency-Jennifer please call me as soon as you get this.
You can plainly see why both of these approaches do not work.
There are two very powerful human forces which are curiosity and self interest. When you combine these two human traits the big secret is they tend to work like magic. So to get your ex to return your call a message that seems to work almost every time is this
Remember always in a friendly tone

Hi Brad, its Jennifer, I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person. In this message you have combined both curiosity and self interest. Brad will be thinking what did I do and what does she appreciate, and because it was said in a friendly and positive way he won’t be able to resist returning your call. Before you make this call be sure you have a set up in mind for what he/she did that you appreciate. Don’t go overboard spinning a tale, just make it be something small and plausible.
Again please have a strategy like is laid out for you in the magic of making up system. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you could do more harm then good for your relationship if you do not handle this correctly.
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your your call is much more important than having them return your call.
Secret Words that will have your ex returning your calls!